Tuesday, December 18, 2007
There are some people who belong to a certain category. The category of weirdness. Each to a different extent of course. And I've met too many so far in this lifetime. One is already 1 too many but 2? Girls, I can still handle (except for a BHB one). Guys.. well.. let's just say they can freak me out way too much. Now I must make it clear that at no particular point in time have I ever given the wrong signals to these weirdos. To the extent that I have come to the conclusion that apart from guys whom I made friends with in school, I should view the others with suspicion.
I have made some guesses on my part and tried to analyze the situations. Perhaps they see me as one of them, that I can be pals with them or be like a buddy to them. I don't know. Only God knows what these people are thinking. But I don't hesitate to break contact or delete them from msn or whatever if things get too far. I've known someone whom I used to have lunch with everyday while at work, him plus a few other colleagues. We would occasionally chat on msn (just like we do with other colleagues of almost the same age). However, slowly he started asking extremely personal questions like "have you ever had sex?" or "are you a virgin?" I eventually found out from another female colleague who also lunched with us that he'd also asked her questions like the above.
Hello? I'm not obligated to answer such questions. First of all, it's because you're a guy and secondly, I've known you for less than 3 months only. These people just give the impression that they only have sex on their minds all the time. Well, that's not my problem so don't involve me. It only gives me the shivers and makes me feel disgusted coz I don't know what thoughts you are harbouring. I've guy friends whom I've known for many years and they've never asked such stupid or personal questions. I don't even care if you are a virgin. Even if you are forever a virgin in this lifetime (which I think is unlikely for such a pervert like you) or the next 10, 000 lifetimes, deal with it yourself.
Second case. Also known this fellow from work and he, another guy and myself would go for lunch together coz we're all temps and were almost similar in terms of age. Gradually, he would talk about stuff like how his male friends would do this and that... one night stands... etc. Details which I don't wanna state here.
I don't mind discussing about r/s related stuff but there must be a boundary. I find it quite commonsensical but I don't know about you, guys. Well on my last day of work, he actually once again asked me and the other guy if we are v. I don't wish to make judgments even if you'd an affair with someone who's already attached then. But don't involve me. Don't even bother asking me out on days which you claimed you were bored. I don't buy such nonsense. Perhaps those gullible stupid girls will be taken in by you but it makes me wonder how genuine are u in making friends. It kind of disappointed me because while discussing philosophical topics, you've shown yourself to be someone with your own stand and opinions.
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See what I mean? It only goes to show how shallow such people can be. It's like all the conversations that they have in their lives revolve around those sort of things.
Can only say to such people, GO get a life. Same goes for goondus who wanna pick up girls on streets. Please make your life more purposeful and less pathetic.Labels: Uncategorized
Serendipity believed today at 5:26 PM
